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Single unemployed mom of 3 kids all under age of 5 and pregnant with 4th need help!!!

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Hi ive been veryyy depressed lately i am currently almost 36 weeks pregnant and i have no job and im living with the father of my children and his parents im 23 yrs old with no ged havent worked since 2006 and at the momment the father is unemployed cause he cant keep a job i just want to leave but i have no where to go and i live in a 3 bedroom apartment and i also walk in crutches to to a bad fall back in sept 22 basically i crushed my ankle bad and it heald wrong, i am also in debt for lots of medical bills due to no insurance at that time i am on medicad right npw but it will soon be over i just been trying to find resources for my area but there is no section 8 or anything what can i do!!! plz help

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sickofmen
hang in there girl i know how u feel im 23 two kids and never had a job and my husband is a ***hole it s tuff but i know god will make it ok one day
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Hollie's Hope for help
 in response to Hollie's Hope for help...   

I'm hollie and I just sent to a reply but I pressed post before sending my email

holliewood@cheerful.com

 

And anyone else is free to email if interested....we all gotta help each other in this world today !

 

Hang in there girl! 

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Hollie's Hope for help

 Hey girl cheer up....I know what its like , and it just seems to get worse, but maybe theres a way you can make some cash ....

A friend of mine sent me this email and she says that everyone that emails it now will get a check for $245.00 and I know she wouldn't lie to me.

 You gotta email though me, so I can email you the info about it.. I know it sounds weird but trust me!

Read at the end of the lond attachments I'm sending you and if you read it it explains that if someone else emails it after you the cash doubles.

What do you have to loose??

I'm doin it..even if its cuttin it close to two weeks.

Hope this can help you out if you send it to enough people! Heck people don't even have to know yah and they'll probably do it...Who doesn't need a $4,000.00 check from microsoft

if not take care anyways!!! Take care girl!!!!

Luv   Hollie Lewis 

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Anora Eldorath

Have you gotten any help from WIC? Are things working out for you? I hope things are going better.


Namaste-Anora

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Anora Eldorath

On WIC, I just realized you have kids under five. All of them qualify for WIC. Check it out.

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Anora Eldorath

Apply for Section-8, but it will be a waiting list (it's worth it once you get it). You two should qualify being unemployed, though they may be looking at the fact you live with parents. Do you all live together in a 3 bedroom? Or is that you live in an attached apartment? If it is an attached I'd say stay where you are if they are providing you a place to live.

I'd also say go back to school if you want to do something that is just for you.

Depression is very normal in pregnancies though you'll want to talk to your doctor if you're still having these things after the baby is born in case it is "Post Partum Depression". Sometimes just talking with someone whose been through it helps, but most hospitals have contact with those resources to help you. They also have a social services director at most hospitals that can make a home visit once the baby is born to help you all get in contact with the right people.

Also, apply for foodstamps, etc. The baby and children will still be able to get medicaid if your monies are not over the limit. Also, apply for WIC if you're not on already. If you nurse you'll keep the same package you already have which will give you milk, peanut butter, cereal, juice, carrots, tuna, and cheese. You can do wonders with that food.

Check around for local foodshelves. Call local churches if you have to. Tell them you need help.

If you truly feel you need to leave your spouse, if he is abusive you can go to a local woman's shelter.

Can you call your parents? Are they still alive? Perhaps they'll let you stay with them  until you can get on your feet.

Blessings-Anora

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similarone1

Please eamil me at:  similarone1@gmail.com  if you are still looking for help.

Thanks

david

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MissGordon

Oh, and about the GED part, go to

free ed.net

They can help you to study on your own for your GED.  Plus, you are 23, you can still get that done, and so much more.  Online even.

 

God Bless.

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MissGordon

Well, I don't know how much I can help, but here is what I have.

If you can get online, research the kind of things that you like, and don't mind promoting.  Search Traffic Exchanges and look them over.  DO NOT send anyone any money!  Synthasite can give you a free website, and you can use it for affiliate work.  With Traffic Exchanges, and promoting yourself to family and friends, you could do amazing things.

I don't know, it's just a thought. 

I'll be praying for you though.  I hope that the father wakes up and does his job, because his parents won't be there forever.  I'll be praying for you and your family. 

Have you looked into local churches or anything?  Some have the ability to help in ways you might not realize.

 God Bless!

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